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Old 09-20-2007, 01:48 AM   #1 (permalink)
ZachHart72
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Default "Obsessing" over a girl

(this has nothing to do with my previous thread, though i imagine going through a history of my posts will reveal that i experience a lot of social anxiety)

There is a girl i really like, who no longer lives in the same town as me, since im at university. And i dont know what to do about it. In some ways i think i just need to hear from someone else what may be the inevitable answer, and i also kinda feel like i need to fully define the situation somewhere. anyway, the story goes:

There is a girl i met about a month before leaving for university. and after knowing them for about a week, it was quite clear (to me) that i liked this girl a lot. But i knew i could not do anything about it really because i was going to university. Still, whenever i was hanging out with her, i would almost always be enjoying it, in spite of what we were doing.

When i left for university, I was pretty sure i would be able to get over it, and after 2 weeks i thought i was, but when i went back home i went out to see a movie with her(and some mutual friends), and it was all back to the same as before i left, enjoyed a terrible movie, sang along to a ridiculous song, good times, and now she is back stuck in my head. I notice myself just smiling randomly when talking to her on MSN, and i did the closest thing to asking her out (as friends) that i have ever done in my life.

Now i just dont know what to do...I could only really see her every weekend at the most...and im also somewhat intimidated by the fact that she seems to be more sociable than i am. but...i just like her so much.
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