cd2nwheeler:
Yes I wrote "no sex" but I didn't mean "no sex at all". Angela was asking "what do you want? a fun adventure? sex? or a relationship?" and I answered "sex: no, too much feelings", what meant "only sex no, I have too much feelings to have only sex with him and nothing more". Sorry for this misunderstanding, I thought it was clear. Feelings don't prevent me from having sex you know
but they prevent me from having nothing more than sex.
I think you are right, he mirrors my own confusion. But this confusion is about a relationship or not. Wether we should meet asap or not is clear to me, so why doesn't he mirror this instead?
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Originally Posted by carenkh  I hear that 2 year-old girl thinking, "If only *I* had done something differently, Daddy wouldn't have left! If only *I* weren't such a burden, he would have visited me." |
uh, that hurts!
You're right, absolutely. I even wanted to cry reading this.
As I was a child, when we talked about that my mother used to tell me "Everything was wonderful, then you were born and from this moment he was half away all the time" And now I attract men who are "half away all the time" in one manner or in another... And I think "If only *I* would behave differently, he would be really here".
So the truth is, he IS NOT reliable and I have to decide wether I want such a man or not?
Thank you very much for the links, Caren. First one seems to be censored, I could not open it. But I looked quickly at Byron Katie. It looks like fun, applied SR
I'll do it tonight! Thank you!