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Rose of Cairo · 09-18-2007, 01:57 PM

Wait a moment you guys! (edit: to cdn2wheeler and Jim)

who said no feelings???

With "no sex" I meant "not only sex".

It's true that I don't know exactly what I want. Generally, and in this case especially, because what happened between us happened three years ago. I'm not the person I used to be at that time any more, and I guess he isn't either. That's why I want to see him first of all.

Maybe my signals are mixed, BUT one message is very clear: "I want to see you." And I am consistent with that wish. When we arrange to meet, I am at the right place at the right time. When he writes, I answer within 12 hours. I really want to see him, that's clear. Unclear is the long run... is it really that important?

And he sends mixed signals too!!! First he wants to see me immediately, then he doesn't show up. Then he writes as if he's in love with me, then he doesn't write anything for one week. It's cold-hot-cold-hot all the time!

Why should he get involved? Well if he has feelings for me, he should want to see me asap, or am I wrong on this one??

09-18-2007, 01:57 PM	#12 (permalink)
Rose of Cairo Family Member Join Date: Jul 2007 Location: France -> Germany -> France -> Brazil Posts: 3,430	Wait a moment you guys! (edit: to cdn2wheeler and Jim) who said no feelings??? With "no sex" I meant "not only sex". It's true that I don't know exactly what I want. Generally, and in this case especially, because what happened between us happened three years ago. I'm not the person I used to be at that time any more, and I guess he isn't either. That's why I want to see him first of all. Maybe my signals are mixed, BUT one message is very clear: "I want to see you." And I am consistent with that wish. When we arrange to meet, I am at the right place at the right time. When he writes, I answer within 12 hours. I really want to see him, that's clear. Unclear is the long run... is it really that important? And he sends mixed signals too!!! First he wants to see me immediately, then he doesn't show up. Then he writes as if he's in love with me, then he doesn't write anything for one week. It's cold-hot-cold-hot all the time! Why should he get involved? Well if he has feelings for me, he should want to see me asap, or am I wrong on this one?? Last edited by Rose of Cairo; 09-18-2007 at 02:00 PM.