Originally Posted by Rose of Cairo
....His lack of integrity is one reason why I tried to forget him....
I noticed him because of his integrity. He would never lie or cheat or do something twisted. He's a very straight forward person, he has principles and sticks to them. I admire him a lot for that. He's actually very reliable. Very often he does something because he has promised it. So that's very, very surprising that he's not like that with me. That's why I did not think "he is like this, he has no integrity"
A bit of a contradiction here.
Some of what you're saying about what you want and what he's like doesn't add up. Perhaps he's confused too! You may be sending out mixed or conflicting signals and that could stem from the fact that you yourself don't know what you want from this situation.