Originally Posted by Rose of Cairo
...most of all I want to feel free and do what I want....can't we have a big love story without having a relationship?
What is a big love story if it's not a relationship?
You mean, long-term, mutually beneficial relationship though, right? Have you considered that perhaps you have attracted exactly the right person into your life so that you could work through the very thing that is stopping you from creating a LTMBR? What I see: Here's a person who is wonderful, fun, and exciting; who professes to want some kind of intimate relationship with sex appeal, romance, but not sure what kind; who is not completely honest or present with Beloved; to whom freedom is paramount; who may have a tendency to bolt as a coping mechanism; is withholding; and is very willing to overlook some huge obstacles to a LTMBR. In short, this person is not Available.
Does that sound familiar, Rose? Do you know who I'm talking about?