I would withdraw from being avaliable, and find other intrest to take you away from being next door. I think if you try to explain anything you will come off sounding needy. Go out on some dates with other girls. Don't do the kid sitting thing. Your just being used. Been there done that. What the kicker is they usally pick some dude that beat the **** out of them or has drug problems. And you know this, the first time you see their new boy friend.
Give her plenty of space and see if she comes around. Just my slant on things. Good luck.
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