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Originally Posted by Chado2423  I just sort of noticed that there doesn't seem to be much discussion on resolving conflicts. |
That's funny -- it seems to me that's all we ever talk about!
Similar to what joelyle says, if you take 100% responsibility for the conflict within yourself, it doesn't have to even appear in your relationship. That's in a perfect world, of course. But if you're lucky enough to create a relationship with someone who, like you, recognizes that the conflicts you have with her are little gifts -- little possible openings into further self-awareness and deeper love -- and who holds you and herself to the commitment to that, you're really blessed.