@NotesMaeve: I understand and I agree. I've never expected this relationship to go from naught to sixty overnight. But I do think it's time to shift from neutral into first gear. Other than that, no hurries.
@Angela: Thanks for the warning. I will talk to her about the discrepency. Btw. I wasn't necessarily thinking about sex yet. That is, I wouldn't mind if it happened, but I also feel that sex after the next date might be a bit too much too soon, for both sides. I'm not looking for a quick lay, but for something more substantial. If holding my john in my pants a little longer means he gets to go out and party more in the future, then all the better!
