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Originally Posted by Lola  hey cdn2wheeler -
I'm not getting into the whole subjective vs. objective reality debate because, frankly, it gives me a bit of a headache, too! But I would like to comment on your initial issue - about unrequited love and why isn't anything working.
I truly hate that this is likely to sound harsh - but here goes -
These are quotes from your posts:
I think this woman is using you big-time. And why not? She's got an on-call handy handyman, a on-call (free?) babysitter, an on-call sympathetic ear, and an on-call f-buddy, and she doesn't have to take the kids to MickyD's by herself.
At the very least, you're the only one involved here. She has made it very clear that she is not interested in nor invested in you the way you are her. And honestly, do you really want a LTR with someone who doesn't want to be with you, for you?
FWIW - I really hope you're busy with your own life next time she needs something from you.
Love -
Been there done that Lola |
I agree with Lola post, go and find some other girlfriend to take some of your time. It might bring her around to seeing what great qualities you have. Stop making yourself so availible to her every call. She probably getting sex when your babysitting for her. The saying if you get your milk for free, why buy the cow works both ways. Good luck