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Originally Posted by Rose of Cairo  But I think that offering some help is still a good idea even though it doesn't resonate with the person. |
"You miss 100% of the shots you don't take"-Wayne Gretsky
Very interesting topic. When I offer advice to someone, I find that I take it personally if they don't follow it. "Hurt" may not be the right word...but it's the first word that comes to mind. Like Rose, I will still offer help but will try to emotionally detach myself from the outcome or course of action taken by the inquirer.