yes, paradigme shift...
like showing your point of view and asking him to take a look of it...
The bad news is that I haven't able to do it. I keep posting advices, less than before... I really want to stop just for the sake of what happens.
When I take decisions I often perceive synchronicities about it... maybe some will come.
I often think that we ask more for reassurement than for help. Like, "life is crap... Ain't It?" a "Life is not crap" would not be "welcomed", and would not be of any help.
The other way round too. "You can grow as a person" it will like to you if you already think like that...
In my experience I remember that when I had some mindset I didn't follow advices against that mindset. But when I was in doubt about my beliefs, I reminded the advice given to me and tried the other mindset.
Maybe I would have done it... without any advice... if I was asking for advice it's because I was already wondering for some other mindset.
I want to know if help... helps.
Sometimes I feel that help is like when politicians do their speech in front of people they're supposed to be convinced by them.... but they already are, that's why they're there.