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songwriter · 09-17-2007, 12:23 AM

I know, I know... but the heck of it all... is that I don't know what do I have to change in me. If I knew it I wouldn't need EFT, etc. I can change my personality... not from day to other, lol... but I can do it.

Well, I say that If something depends only on me, I always get it. It make take long but I can get to do it. Okey, but not when that something I want depends on another person too... (like get signed by a record company, or getting a girlfriend).
If I knew what is that that i have to do I would do it. Changing myself, learn some certain skills... singing like Elvis (lol), I know I would do it, all of my life I have get to change what I wanted to change in me. Slowly.

But in this I simply don't know what do I have to change... the problem is depending on other person "validation", especially when they don't tell you why you're not what they want.... or why they do not like. Then I can not change it, for I don't know what it is.

I'm sick of doing online personality test that qualify me as "very attractive personality" or "excelent communication skills".

I enter this web searching for "social skills" or so and this web was the 6th result in Yahoo.

I've learned a lot of things (and maybe even show) but the one that took me here.

09-17-2007, 12:23 AM	#26 (permalink)
songwriter Family Member Join Date: Nov 2006 Posts: 1,123	I know, I know... but the heck of it all... is that I don't know what do I have to change in me. If I knew it I wouldn't need EFT, etc. I can change my personality... not from day to other, lol... but I can do it. Well, I say that If something depends only on me, I always get it. It make take long but I can get to do it. Okey, but not when that something I want depends on another person too... (like get signed by a record company, or getting a girlfriend). If I knew what is that that i have to do I would do it. Changing myself, learn some certain skills... singing like Elvis (lol), I know I would do it, all of my life I have get to change what I wanted to change in me. Slowly. But in this I simply don't know what do I have to change... the problem is depending on other person "validation", especially when they don't tell you why you're not what they want.... or why they do not like. Then I can not change it, for I don't know what it is. I'm sick of doing online personality test that qualify me as "very attractive personality" or "excelent communication skills". I enter this web searching for "social skills" or so and this web was the 6th result in Yahoo. I've learned a lot of things (and maybe even show) but the one that took me here.