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Originally Posted by cdn2wheeler  An objective LoA interpretation would say, for instance, that regardless of my feelings or expectations about a matter - especially one involving the participation of another party - the other party's freewill negates any LoA. |
No! The other party's free will does not negate any LoA. The LoA still works in any case. Your feelings and expectations directly attract the situation you are in. Always. I'll try to explain. Let's assume we are in an objective reality.
Basically, LoA == you attract whatever you concentrate on. As you currently concentrate on rejection and other negative thoughts, you'll attract rejection and negative things. For example, women who don't want you.
The point is, you cannot attract abundance out of a mindset of scarcity. That means, you will never be able to attract a loving, serious relationship (with anyone!) as long as you concentrate on you
not having such a loving, serious relationship. You're thinking a lot of why someone doesn't want you, so you attract more of someone not wanting you.
That's not because this special woman has her own free will and by accident does not want you. It's a direct consequence of the Law of Attraction: if you feel bad and expect something not to work, you'll attract people with whom it will not work.
This means: you attracted this special woman BECAUSE she's not ready for such a relationship or does not want you for some other reason, and because with your negative thoughts you were attracting exactly such a person/situation.
Take care of what you think!!!
You have to concentrate on the positive aspects of what you want, and NEVER on the lack of what you want. To guide you, listen to your feelings: if you have a good feeling, your intention is manifesting. If you have a bad feeling, it means that you're currently manifesting something you do NOT want. In this case, look very carefully at what you're thinking of and consciously change your thoughts immediately.
When you'll start to focus only on thoughts that feel good, maybe she'll change her mind. Maybe she'll not change her mind. But then you will attract someone new. That's why Erin says, don't be obsessed by one special person. Maybe she's not the right person. Change your thoughts. Maybe you'll lose her. But you'll attract the kind of relationship you want. Maybe with her, maybe with someone else...