Thanks for this input Songwriter!
I'm noticing right now that I'm too attached to the outcome too when I try to help someone. Liz is right, I'll try to train detachment in this aera too. It's my main work currently anyway.
But I think that offering some help is still a good idea even though it doesn't resonate with the person. You can never know how useful your advice will be. If it's not and they feel guilty about it, it's their problem, not mine
Of course it's useless and in my opinion disrespectful to help someone who
doesn't want help...