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Originally Posted by Rose of Cairo  Did she say that? "I like you only as a friend"?
Did you TELL her honestly what you feel for her? Did you tell her what you exactly want? From your posts that's not clear to me.
You have to tell her. How can she be open, after having been hurt badly, to a man who sleeps with her but does not tell her he loves her like crazy? 
Tell her honestly how much you love her and what you want and ask her what she wants.
If she says "no", or "not yet", you'll have to accept her decision. LoA or not...
Good luck to you! |
I did tell her, once, a while ago, that I thought she and I had a good foundation for a more meaningful relationship and I was interested in pursing it further.
I got a one-word response: NO! (all caps, including the exclamation mark, though it was on a hand-written note, not online like this)
LoA or not? So, sometimes it works, sometimes it doesn't? And how is one to know when it will and when it won't?
*edited to add*
Should have thought of this earlier...
The only time we ever sleep together is when she calls me, and like I said before it's only a handful of times per year. As well, after I had suggested that we "date" or try out a more meaningful relationship, she got quite pi$$ed off and wouldn't speak to me for a few days. Well, I'm trainable; if I do something and get bit, I won't do it again. I feel that if I bring it up again, the results may be bad for both of us. When I started learning about LoA and applying the process, I was trusting the "universe" (or whatever one wishes to call it) to make things happen. But, so far at least, nothing. Granted, that may change tomorrow... or it may never change at all.