Not very long ago, I broke up with 2 wonderful friends. I felt like a huge b*tch because they were supposed to be my best friends in the world and had been there for me in rough times.
HOWEVER, they were dragging me down and their energy was very negative and damaging. It was like my soul was telling me something, but my logical mind wouldn't want to process it.
My feelings were right...in time, I learned that their behavior towards me, confirmed my intuition that they were damaging to my emotional wellbeing.
One of them, after I distanced myself from her, called all of my friends ( that she met through me) and started to befriend them, in an attempt to rally all of them away from me.The other friend, that was like a sister, said very petty things about me, that were in line with how I felt around her when I decided to take time off from the friendship.
The truth is: I didn't like who I was with them. The person I had to be in order to get along with them was a small, uninteresting person, who had to silence her achievements and never talk about her lifestyle in order to fit in and be accepted.
Loneliness is better than being surrounded by people that do not support your higher self and higher goals.
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