Hmm maybe I don't get what you are saying due to language barrier. But I'd have to disagree. You must force yourself to do something you think will bring you more pain than pleasure. I think I've been listening too much Tony Robbins, but the problem for me is to find the motivation. Getting leverage. Whatever. And I know, in reality it will bring me more pleasure than pain, at least in the long run, but try telling my brain that. It's like I know these things consciously but my unconscious won't believe me
It's like you don't know how much greener the grass is on the other side, unless you've been there already. I've had glimpses of it, but not enough to really get motivated.