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Christian223 · 09-14-2007, 04:59 PM

Hey Kidman, you know my Father is/was like that all the time when i was a kid, allways angry at us for no apparent reason, if you dont fix your issues you are going to make the life of many people who love you miserable, im sure you dont want that, but you have to really work on your un-resolved issues, because i think thats the reason for why you mis-treat your gf, dont avoid your inner-personal problems, accept them so you can change them.

My father for example suffered a lot when he was a kid, he worked at a farm with his grandparents, he started to work very early in his childhood, he didnt have a father, her mother was never there for him, it was very tough, i can only imagine what other things he suffered, the thing i am sure of is that he allways tried to avoid dealing with his issues, because beign angry was/is not his only problem, he is also extremely distant, quiet and defensive, wich makes it imposible to help him change, but you are different, you are accepting and wanting to change, thats great, your going to change but only if you work towards becoming a better man, its hard, i know, it takes time, but remeber you are not hurting yourself but the ones who love you...

A quick and powerfull way to change and become a better person is to use EFT and TAT, you know that beign angry is just a symptom of a core issue of yours, EFT and TAT are techniques that help you get rid of those core issues so that you dont present those ugly symptons of being angry, sad, or any limiting belief that you may have, i have personally tried it and its a blessing, its incredible how much can it change you in a short period of time.
It looks very weird, but it really works, you have to give it a few tries because it WILL change you, it changed me, and millions of people around the world, just dont be decieved by how ridiculous and easy it looks, it simply works. So what you have to do is concentrate in your core un-resolved issues and limitinf beliefs, for example limiting beliefs like "im not good enough for her", you use EFT or TAT on that and you wont feel that any more, it will change you from the inside out. Try the link at my singature and visit Tapping.com - Free EFT Videos - Emotional Freedom Technique for some free video to start quick.

Good luck, you are on your way to be a better person and a better man to your gf, you just have to do something about it (use EFT and TAT!

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09-14-2007, 04:59 PM	#8 (permalink)
Christian223 Senior Member Join Date: Nov 2006 Posts: 312	Hey Kidman, you know my Father is/was like that all the time when i was a kid, allways angry at us for no apparent reason, if you dont fix your issues you are going to make the life of many people who love you miserable, im sure you dont want that, but you have to really work on your un-resolved issues, because i think thats the reason for why you mis-treat your gf, dont avoid your inner-personal problems, accept them so you can change them. My father for example suffered a lot when he was a kid, he worked at a farm with his grandparents, he started to work very early in his childhood, he didnt have a father, her mother was never there for him, it was very tough, i can only imagine what other things he suffered, the thing i am sure of is that he allways tried to avoid dealing with his issues, because beign angry was/is not his only problem, he is also extremely distant, quiet and defensive, wich makes it imposible to help him change, but you are different, you are accepting and wanting to change, thats great, your going to change but only if you work towards becoming a better man, its hard, i know, it takes time, but remeber you are not hurting yourself but the ones who love you... A quick and powerfull way to change and become a better person is to use EFT and TAT, you know that beign angry is just a symptom of a core issue of yours, EFT and TAT are techniques that help you get rid of those core issues so that you dont present those ugly symptons of being angry, sad, or any limiting belief that you may have, i have personally tried it and its a blessing, its incredible how much can it change you in a short period of time. It looks very weird, but it really works, you have to give it a few tries because it WILL change you, it changed me, and millions of people around the world, just dont be decieved by how ridiculous and easy it looks, it simply works. So what you have to do is concentrate in your core un-resolved issues and limitinf beliefs, for example limiting beliefs like "im not good enough for her", you use EFT or TAT on that and you wont feel that any more, it will change you from the inside out. Try the link at my singature and visit Tapping.com - Free EFT Videos - Emotional Freedom Technique for some free video to start quick. Good luck, you are on your way to be a better person and a better man to your gf, you just have to do something about it (use EFT and TAT! )