I always thought that - why not? What have I got to lose? And I did ask a couple of guys out (years ago - not lately!). THEN I read "He's Just Not That Into You" which made SO much sense in so many ways. In that book, he also advises not asking men out... in fact, you might play a little hard to get. Oh. Really? I always thought you were just honest and real, and that was that. But reading that part of the book made me doubt that... "maybe I *should* play games!" my mind said. Kinda like how I never paid attention to my clothes AT ALL, then have learned that clothes DO make an impression, and even though I'd like to live in a world where clothes don't make a difference (OK, and in MY little world, they don't!), they do.
So - even though I'd like to live in a world where everyone can just be honest and real and leave the b.s. behind, is it necessary to play games? Haven't heard from many men on this thread! I'd like to - even though I have a feeling lots here are more "developed" than the general population. More eagles than bears.
(And I made myself blush thinking of men here being more developed... ay, yi, yi...)
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