Jiri: Thank you.
NotesMaeve: Thanks for telling me your story. One thing that jumps out at me was your statement that you are aggressive but had backed off and let him come to you. That was exactly one of my concerns, that maybe he needs to be the one to make the first move. (As an aside, this guy is a police officer.) But I know he's not a mind-reader, and he may not realize I'm interested in him.
MsQ: Thank you. You are correct, I have nothing to lose, except maybe my pride. Life is too short to worry about that though.