[quoteguy]

Hello Friend,

Hope all is well. I am very interested in quotes. I like trying to find out the true meanings behind them. I like quotes deal with the Law of Attraction and our ability to atrract whatever you desire. You can intend friend ins into your life. I think it's important to remeber to truly love yourself and ithers will love you as well.

This quote was sent to me by sister. (Thanks Sis) By the way, if you have any good quotes, I love receiving them. feel free to tell me what you think it means, "in your own words."

"When the character of a man is not clear, look at his friends." (Abraham Lincoln)

My parents always taught me to be careful how I presented myself. Before I woukd leave the house my parents would always say, "Remember what your last name is." I still think about it every time I leave the house. They were very careful with who I was allowed to associate with.

Society tends to clump us into groups. Once you are labeled, it is hard to shake it, especially if it is negative. You could be the best person in the whole world for your whole life and then you mess up once, everyone forgets about the person you were and now you're reputation is tainted.

My parents concern was that I could be doing everything right, but because I may be hanging with a "bad crowd", I too would be look at in the same way. I was taught to always befriend people that have goals and are trying to do the right thing. This does two things. First, if you associate with good people, like we said before, you get labeled a good person. Second, you are able to share ideas and attract good opportunities to you. If you are with the wrong crowd, you definitely attract negative situations.

It is very hard to change how peolpe view you once you've established a reputation. In an extreme case, we can look at convicted felons. Even if an inmate finish his time and maintains a good track record, upon release, they have a hard time readapting to society. Everytime they fiil out a job application they have to disclose that they had served time. Very few people are willing to ignore the fact that they were in jail, and give them a second chance.

Having good friends keeps you focus. You talk about positive things. Help each other out in need. It's a mazing how fast fake friends disappear when times get tough. Good friends stick with you no matter what. You will attract more good peolple into your life which will make your experiences more enjoyable. So make sure your friends are a reflection of how you want to be percieved.

Thanks for listening.