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Originally Posted by ahimel  Because your wife's sex drive isn't as high as yours, and when she turns you down, you become angry or depressive, leading you to emotional blackmail and/or rape.
He doesn't say he wants to avoid sex; he says he wants to avoid addiction to sex. And if you aren't able to be understanding and compassionate about sex, it can become a real problem in the relationship. |
There is one, very productive question, it is simply: Why?
Why his wife's sex drive isn't high?
Why he wants sex more than his wife?
Why both of them cannot find harmony?
etc. etc.
Honest talk day by day, respect, analysing and allways asking why lead to understanding. Answer could be many time on some oposite side, not directly connected with a visible problem.
People who avoid talk about imortant things can become strangers, even if they are in marriage.