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Originally Posted by Kidman  ... so I treated her bad again, the problem is I feel like I have no control over myself at those particular situation. |
Kidman, when you feel like you have no control it's easy to slide down into feeling like you have no responsibility. And then you're powerless (not to mention destructive!) If you want to have a great loving, mutually beneficial relationship, you have to take 100% responsibility for your life.
AND ... taking 100% responsibility for your life gives you all the power in the world.
Please don't let yourself slide on this. If you do, it's going to creep up in every relationship you have until you deal with it.
Lots of love,
Angela