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Originally Posted by jamestl2  Any examples on how to do this? What "changes" am I suppose to make? I don't know what to do, I feel lost. |
What is still bothering you most about this situation?
Is it that you expected a totally different outcome - like that she might be with you right now and instead she had a boyfriend all along?
Do you feel cheated? Or are you mad at yourself for falling for her and her antics?
The only thing you can really do is put this behind you and consider it a lesson in human behavior (yours and hers). There may have been red flags that you ignored because you really wanted her to find you awesome. There may also have been times you weren't really being true to yourself or you would have noticed she was playing you. This is all a tough pill to swallow but you have nothing to gain by dwelling on it. It was never what you thought it was and that's probably the hardest part to accept.
You definitely deserve better this. Don't let this get the better of you!
I wish all you the best.