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geekchic9 · 09-13-2007, 03:05 AM

You have a boundary problem. Work on yourself and who you are, not who she is/might be/whatever. It's not selfish, it's self-preservation. Don't lose your identity through obsessing over other people. It's not worth it.

09-13-2007, 03:05 AM	#46 (permalink)
geekchic9 Senior Member Join Date: Nov 2006 Posts: 270	You have a boundary problem. Work on yourself and who you are, not who she is/might be/whatever. It's not selfish, it's self-preservation. Don't lose your identity through obsessing over other people. It's not worth it.