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Originally Posted by Erin Pavlina  When it's my intuition it speaks calmly and succintly. |
I usually follow my intuition when it comes to people and then logic when it comes to things like business or planning.
I haven't kept score, though! I rarely get a "clear voice" type of intuition usually I just get a bad or good feeling about someone. However, just the other day, as I was beginning to wake up (it was probably almost lucid dreaming as I became aware that I was waking up but wasn't quite awake yet) I heard a voice in my head say, "He is not the one."
Very clear. Just those words. I became alert right away and thought...
dang!
I've been sending out the intention to meet the man of my dreams and have been getting those "alpha reflections" I think Steve P calls them. That is, I've been meeting more men who match up to what I want. I'm using online dating and this guy (who "is not the one!") had emailed me. He seemed quite the match (if not my usual physical "type") but everything else just well, beamed about him. Big smile, joyous look, positive. In case you're wondering about his physical type, his photos show a very athletic build - bigger upper body, biceps. Not just buff but muscular.
Anyway, I'm thinking, well, not quite the lean look I prefer but what a shining personality is coming through! Then I get the "He's not the one" message.
Based on what I am reading here, I should just forget it. I have had those logical "Yes/No" type of internal arguments ("But he's so nice!", "He's not your type.", "You've dated all sorts of types."..blah, blah) but this clear voice was a new one on me.
Now, my logic is saying, "But it's just a date..what harm is there to learn more?"
This is where it gets a bit confusing. My logic is ALSO saying (or maybe it's intuition), "Well, intuition is saying 'He's not the one' so why bother?"
But logic is also saying, "Maybe it's fear and not intuition speaking.."
Arrrgh. However, I do admit my gut is saying, "Fuhgettaboutit. Pointless to continue the process."
I really dislike internal "girl talk!"
I'm curious about what you all think about this. I am tending towards fuhgettaboutit myself.