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Originally Posted by Shamou  It's all on the intention and on the delivery... before you start saying or explaining whatever it is that you want to say... just make certain that your intentions are clear in your head... and the words necessary to convey that message should come out naturally...
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Shamou, thank you for your idea of focusing on intentions rather than all the complimentary stuff that goes on in an interaction or in our life. I often find myself trying to think through exactly what I would say, forgetting the focus on my intention in the process. I guess our intentions are the real essence of who we are, rather than the image we sometimes falsely grapple to express, when this image itself turns out to be just a delineation from our real core - our intentions and our spirit within.
But getting back on topic, jsot, try telling your friend how you feel. What have you got to loose with honesty? In the end, you will be staying honest to yourself by expressing your true feelings.