I generally pride myself on not being particularly needy, but if a girl I was seeing seemed to be making no attempts at spending time with me, I'd likely stop contacting her and either she'd contact me to get together the next couple times, or the relationship would simply dissolve and we'd both move on.
Spending energy on someone who doesn't reciprocate is a great way to destroy confidence/self-esteem.
She may be quite busy, but I'm sure she has to eat/sleep some time, and if she really wanted to see you she could do either of the two with you. That she isn't just says that you aren't her priority right now, and you're likely better off focusing your energy on someone who will appreciate your attention.
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