jsot! You can have your cake and eat it too... it's called diplomacy...
There are ways that anything can be said without hurting people and yet be honest with them...
It's all on the intention and on the delivery... before you start saying or explaining whatever it is that you want to say... just make certain that your intentions are clear in your head... and the words necessary to convey that message should come out naturally...
The very best of luck to you...
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