Restrikted, there's a certain sense of ... what? ... panic? about your posts around this issue.
Is it possible that there's something missing for you that you're trying to fulfill with this woman? Like maybe, are you feeling like you need security? Or tenderness? Or something else? If it were just sex, I don't think you would be so overwrought about it.
It doesn't work to use a person to fill a hole your life. People will resist being used by you, and you'll end up unsatisfied and resentful anyway. You might want to look at what it is that would make a difference if you were creating in your life independent of anyone else's actions.
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