The problem is that he's never been into me initiating. He seems to prefer to play that role. But after these two sessions, I think he's kind of panicking and anything perceived as pressure would just shut him down completely.
He definitely wants to just rest and sleep. That's cool. And I am not looking for marathons. As long as the affection and cuddle time are intact, I feel pretty sure that it's just the exhaustion (as in, not lost attraction to me in general). HE just seems really freaked out about it.
Would it be okay, do you think, to suggest to him that I just do some things for him? That he just relax and enjoy? This probably sounds completely ridiculous, but him being the experienced one, he's always just played the lead and I've been fine going along because I was enjoying it. He has always made sure I'm taken care of and I think that's why he's down now...because he feels like I'm not 'fulfilled'.
Sorry to get all TMI, just don't really know how these things work.
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