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Old 09-11-2007, 03:48 PM   #1 (permalink)
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Default [Adult] A Question About Sex

Okay, I am sorta embarrased even bringing this up, but I thought since you all know so much about everything maybe you could help. Anyone who's not interested in knowing about my sex life, move along .

My boyfriend just started a new job which is very physically demanding. He does landscaping. When he gets out of work he is of course exhausted. So, we've been having hardly any sex at all. This is not the problem really because I understand he's very tired. I haven't pressured or anything. He is still very affectionate. The issue is that the two times we attempted recently he finished really quickly. He said "this never happens to me" which I would have laughed at since that's what they always say in the movies, but I know he feels a little weird about it. And truthfully, we've been together for almost two years and it has never been an issue.

So, I am wondering if there is something up given that it's not common. And how can I be supportive? Or help? This is my first sexual relationship, so I have no idea whether I should just ignore this or if there is more to it. Thanks to anyone who has made it through and is willing to help out .
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