Christian/Michael/Angela... Thanks for your replies...
I will try the tapping method as suggested Christian
Angela, i can't recall anything significant that has happened between us,, (except when i got maad at him, started calling him names n stuff a long time ago, and he lifted me up to the ceiling and threw me on the bed- but it wasn't emotionally damaging or anything) i mean i love him, it just feels funny when I'm around him because he overwhelms me with so much information, not in a sense that its hard to understand, but in a way which i wish i could add on to what he says.. Not sure if that makes sense or not.. The fixed mindset which was explained by Michael seems to identify my stance on this issue. I tend to close up, to avoid sounding ignorant if i have nothing to say (which is my defense mech.) Aside from that issue, i normally, just, don't, have anything interesting to say to him except our discussions about the current state music which seems to be a redundant topic i bring up.. Otherwise, its quiet time unless hes talking to me..
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