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Ilya · 09-10-2007, 02:03 PM

Smallstar,
Absolutely.
I've used PUA resources as part of my social adaptation in my late teens. I never liked the philosophy, but I acknowledged that these guys know their way around women. The part that I've used is not even seduction, but the respect to girls and self-respect when dealing with girls. The way how women interpret our actions to our disadvantage.
All this information and skills helped me to improve when talking to women and that in turn improved my overall social confidence. As for attracting women...
I've used pick-up skills only once. Not to pick up really, but in order not to make the usual mistakes the guys do around girls they like.
So far this resulted in a marriage, 6 years and flying. And I'm happy I learned this PUA stuff. It helped me to be ready when I met the love of my life and not to blow it.

09-10-2007, 02:03 PM	#3 (permalink)
Ilya Senior Member Join Date: Nov 2006 Location: Moscow, Russia Posts: 452	Smallstar, Absolutely. I've used PUA resources as part of my social adaptation in my late teens. I never liked the philosophy, but I acknowledged that these guys know their way around women. The part that I've used is not even seduction, but the respect to girls and self-respect when dealing with girls. The way how women interpret our actions to our disadvantage. All this information and skills helped me to improve when talking to women and that in turn improved my overall social confidence. As for attracting women... I've used pick-up skills only once. Not to pick up really, but in order not to make the usual mistakes the guys do around girls they like. So far this resulted in a marriage, 6 years and flying. And I'm happy I learned this PUA stuff. It helped me to be ready when I met the love of my life and not to blow it. __________________ Ilya.