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Originally Posted by emeraldbaby  what made you think he's committed to the 'girl-toy'? unlike serious relationships, such girls/relationships are interchangeable.
as for why he chose one girl instead of opting to be single and swinging? sorry to hurt you but isn't sex on tap better and easier than going out and looking for different girls all the time? He isn't 'committed' the way you define it, he's just having his cake and looking out for a different flavour, while keeping his old favourite (you) around just in case. |
Interchangeable? wow. I can understand the choosing one girl and not opting to be single (he told me he needed something stable, but I took as I "oh so you cant be STABLE with me, and he told me I was all wrong) but doesnt that mean that he can be monogamous? Or am I misunderstanding?
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Originally Posted by emeraldbaby I'd have guessed that the whole point of his relationship with the girl is that it gives him what he wants (sex, companionship etc) but doesn't require real commitment from him. |
I think you may be right..