Thanks for your help. I was so caught up in my despair that I turned to just about any source for help... but when you are desperate you're easily taken advantage of, as was my case. I was seeking answers, but instead I just got problems and more problems. Its a shame how soceity takes advantage of disadvantaged people... my therapist was more concerned with prescribing me an anti-depressant rather than assisting me with finding a solution. Once I realized it wasn't working I left. I didn't find the answers that I was looking for, but after coming to this site I believe I am closer to my ultimate goal. You're right that maybe I work to hard.... I just want all parties involved (and you be surprised how many people were affected by this breakup.... not just me) to end up happy, whatever that means.
I was disappointed with one of my friends named Tommy. My friend D. was driving him home one day, and Tommy said "You know the only friend I care abou is Chad." D. was taking him home.... I'm glad Tommy cares about me, but that was bad.
You see before the breakup none of my friends acted that way. Anyway... I will read that article, and I do agree that perhaps I search for the solution to problems that are beyond my capacity to handle. This is why I should follow the advice of the serenity prayer.
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