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HipHipHooray · 09-09-2007, 09:02 AM

I am 22 and a virgin. I have many long term goals, but I have just decided to simplify everything and make my one and only goal (for right now) to GET LAID!

I know a lot of you will think this is shallow.... blah blah blah. I respect your opinion but please don't post something about how I should be thinking about other things, or getting in touch with my inner child; it will fall upon deaf ears. This is something I have to do. Also, I know I can go to a hooker... but it is illegal, and I don't want to risk getting caught. I would also like my first time to be with a decent looking girl and not someone with a slew of stds.

Now, i've decided to follow, atleast somewhat, steve's action outline scheme (using goals and projects). I have my goal: to get laid. But, I need help with choosing the most effective "projects"

Here is a list of some problems I have in no particular order:

Can't drive / no license/ no car
no job
have social phobia
about 20-30lbs overweight
no friends or social life of any kind except family

Now, here are the projects I have selected in order of priority:

Get over social phobia
Get job
Learn to drive/Get license
Lose 5 inches on waste (35inch)/ get down to 15% body fat
Improve appearance (i dont know how to make this one measurable)
Become more independent (same with this one)

Do you think these are the best projects? How can I make the last two measurable, or do you think I should even bother making them measurable?

09-09-2007, 09:02 AM	#1 (permalink)
HipHipHooray Junior Member Join Date: Sep 2007 Posts: 8	Best "projects" to lose virginity for a 22 year old virgin I am 22 and a virgin. I have many long term goals, but I have just decided to simplify everything and make my one and only goal (for right now) to GET LAID! I know a lot of you will think this is shallow.... blah blah blah. I respect your opinion but please don't post something about how I should be thinking about other things, or getting in touch with my inner child; it will fall upon deaf ears. This is something I have to do. Also, I know I can go to a hooker... but it is illegal, and I don't want to risk getting caught. I would also like my first time to be with a decent looking girl and not someone with a slew of stds. Now, i've decided to follow, atleast somewhat, steve's action outline scheme (using goals and projects). I have my goal: to get laid. But, I need help with choosing the most effective "projects" Here is a list of some problems I have in no particular order: Can't drive / no license/ no car no job have social phobia about 20-30lbs overweight no friends or social life of any kind except family Now, here are the projects I have selected in order of priority: Get over social phobia Get job Learn to drive/Get license Lose 5 inches on waste (35inch)/ get down to 15% body fat Improve appearance (i dont know how to make this one measurable) Become more independent (same with this one) Do you think these are the best projects? How can I make the last two measurable, or do you think I should even bother making them measurable?