Thanks A.K. and Angela for the input. Generating freedom and love from a break-up of any variety is a foreign concept to me, but one that I'm beginning to better understand. Letting go in love.. wow.
The more I think and experience, the more I realize guilt and shame are just roadblocks to love. It's tough dealing with them in the moment, because it's so easy to rationalize there existence in a "loving" way. It's easy to think the guilt is coming from love, because you perceive yourself as deeply caring about the other person, etc.
Turns out true love comes from a different source, one that's completely unattached and unhindered by such emotions.
Anyway, thanks.
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