 Advice PLEASE!!! Why did he and what does that mean?
Hello everyone I'm new to the board! So hello!!
I am in need of some advice so PLEASE all opinions are welcomed!
Heres the story...
I was seeing this guy for 7 years....our foundation is based on friendship..and everyone sees that we love each other, its evident. BUT something happened, we started getting really serious as far as savings accounts, bills together, and etc etc. It was getting truly serious and we started talking about future, going over goals and etc. Well he started telling me(when it got really serious) was that he couldnt give me what I wanted and that he loves me but HE WILL NOT HURT ME, and that he was not ready for what I was ready for. We took some space because i didnt understand. Well during our space, he went and got a girlfriend that is much younger than me, has no career, dependent, childish, and nothing like me. It broke my heart. He tried to explain to me, that he didnt want to give himself 100% to anyone and he didnt want restrictions and that he didnt want a serious relationship right now in his life and that he just wants to have fun. And that he wants to be with me but he CANT! And that he refuses to cheat on me, because he cares about me too much to do that. That he was not the mongomous type right now QUESTION: So what i dont understand is WHY IS HE IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH THIS GIRL??! I thought he didnt want all of that!!! People are telling me he did tell me the truth and that his relationship is "fun". He told me that it "was something to do, and something to pass the time with" WHAT DOES ALL THIS MEAN? CAN SOMEONE PLEASE EXPLAIN THIS TO ME??????!!!!  |