Being honest with yourself about your actions and feelings is the first step to positive change. You seem to have taken that step by posting in this forum. Great job on finding the courage to do it, as it takes major balls to be open like this with others. The hard part about it is that you have to be constantly honest with yourself.
When you can totally accept yourself, your actions, and be responsible for what you do, you will find that it is easy to be honest with others, especially your girlfriend -- because there is simply nothing to hide, conceal, or try to twist in order to make you appear like someone else. True relationships are built on trust and honesty, so being open with your girfriend is not just good, but a necessary thing if you want to stay together.
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