No... Actually, I perceive people find me as super-warm and loving no matter what the situation.
Slamhot said to me yesterday that I must be just dreadful when I get angry, because I never do.
A friend of mine is an alcoholic and bipolar and is going through a lot of personal struggles right now. Yesterday, within our circle of four, all three of us got insulted, as manic people have a bit of a superiority complex. Having mastery over my emotions doesn't mean I don't care how she feels, but that I can matter-of-factly say, "D, you're wrong and here's why..." without getting upset, but she still knows I love and care about her, even if I don't take a snap judgement seriously.