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Chet · 09-08-2007, 04:14 AM

I am not normally a fan of avoiding confrontations but in this case if the boyfriend wants to try and work thru the relationship issuses with the girl he needs a 'place' of more power where he is not vulnerable to threats.

Pack as much stuff as he can and get out when she is not home (cut a class if you need to). Leave a note and say when you will be back to have a talk about it, leave the keys with the note. Make that a day or 2 out so both have time to cool down a bit.

09-08-2007, 04:14 AM	#4 (permalink)
Chet Senior Member Join Date: May 2007 Posts: 170	I am not normally a fan of avoiding confrontations but in this case if the boyfriend wants to try and work thru the relationship issuses with the girl he needs a 'place' of more power where he is not vulnerable to threats. Pack as much stuff as he can and get out when she is not home (cut a class if you need to). Leave a note and say when you will be back to have a talk about it, leave the keys with the note. Make that a day or 2 out so both have time to cool down a bit.