Concentrate on the things you can't live with if the girl has got none of those things on your list, she will probobly grow on you and you will live happy togehter. And then add some other stuff that she has to be.
I can't live with a dog-lover (I am allergic)
I can't stand drug-addictive girls (I am not strong enough to break the habit and hate drugs)
I can't live with a girl that snores too loud.
I can't live with a girl that is bi or homo.
I can't live with a girl who are a gambler.
Therefore you can't live with someone who loves dogs, drugs, snores too loud, are homo or bi and are a gambler...
Then there can be some other things on this list of can'ts...
The Can list...
I can (and want to) have a girl who has got her own job.
I can (and want to) live with a girl who loves running as much as I do.
I can (even though I dont) live with a girl that loves books and knitting...
If your list is balanced in this way. You will get your dreamgirl even if the list is tight it will not be overloaded with things...leave out things that don't matter to you: Hair color, eye color, a fun interest in bird-watching, a love for things in pink color etc...
Just a few ideas from me. I had a list on things I wanted my partner to have (a man right now) and my man has got most of those things right...Even if I still prefer dark haired guys with whole scull full of hair. I don't really care about my man being slightly baldheaded. Now I think that hair is not a big deal as long as he don't drink and smoke...
Love Leelene
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