I tend to connect to guys more easily on every level. I admire their strength, toughness and willingness to take risks, to seek out and try new things, having no qualms about breaking convention or doing things no one else is doing. A woman that can seriously challenge an elite male in these areas is rare, but incredibly attractive.
I can develop intense physical attraction to a guy almost instantly, while it usually takes a bit of contact to develop very strong feelings for a woman. Interestingly, once the feelings have gotten very strong, in the past it has been more difficult to fully let go of an attachment to a woman. Somehow they seem chemically more addictive, while my contact with men simply feels empowering.
If STDs were no concern and there were nearly as many bi/gay men at hand as bi/hetero women, I'd primarily be involved with guys. As it is, I enjoy the vast abundance of kind, lovely women seeking out intriguing men in the area.
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