Actually, right after I posted, I decided that I should probably go where other people might go to find out:
VegFamily magazine - Raising Vegan Children, Vegan Pregnancy, and Vegan Recipes. I made a note to finally order your cookbook tonight (I've been good at procrastinating since you sent me that message many months ago).
I found the articles to be quite apropos, specifically:
Ask the Editor - VegFamily.com
I feel much better armed to handle any kind of snarky comment I get my way. B-)
This article also gave me some ideas for sides to bring:
The Vegan Holiday Table