My fiancee complains of this constantly. Many of the friends she knew in high school don't work as hard as she does at maintaining their friendship. She always tries harder to go see them and keep in contact. It frankly pisses me off that these people are so selfish. At the same time, I can't really sympathize because I'm surrounded by all of my best friends and it's really easy to get together with them all.
My response is always that she's a better person and not to waste her time. Look for new friends if that is possible. I know it's not easy for some people.
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