[Livgivare]

I go through such periods in life when I find some famous person that I find just to be so adoreable that I can't stop liking their appearance. I think that the more you want to stop thinking and not be that way the more you think. Keep the pics you find online on your computer, do not stop looking at YouTube or TV/Movie with the person. Just accept it as being a face and something of the now. And also just think that it is OK. It is totaly fine to look at people and feel like you love their way of being or just looking. But you should avoid touching too much. A short hug on the street on a festival when everyone is happy and very into partying is OK but it sall stop there. autograph asking is also OK.

Some even uses the crush when they have sex with their spouce as a spice. I am not sure about what to think about this myself. But I can't seem to get it how people who are fine with this way should stop it if both agree that this is OK. Communication is the main key here. What is good for you two in a relationship is not OK for others.

I Even think that if you find any happiness into it, like being happy when seeing a clip is not bad. If you live a life with lots of depression it is OK to have a laugh.

So my advice to you. Just accept the way you are, and talk to your partner if you have one. And then just try to not make it a shame.

Love Leelene