Dennis08-
I was in the same situation as you are. From my experience, this is how you attract women:
Be a man. (I don't mean to be a smart A.) But it's true. What I mean is this: develop your talents and skills and who you are first. Women love men who are confident, ambitious, and fun to be with. This does two things: Firstly, you'll find what really makes you happy in life. Secondly, like I said before, women will be more attracted to you if you have goals, ambitions and purpose. (psychologically speaking, this is attractive because they need a mate who can support her offspring.)
You don't have to be good looking or buff to attract women. I had to learn how to be funny, since I was also skinny and not too attractive (I'm not saying that you are though). Tease girls. Poke fun at them. B.S. about all the questions they ask you. Never give them a straight answer. Humor is a sign of confidence (but not the root of course) and they love it. Once I started doing that, I was surprised at what people think is humorous. I could literally get anyone to laugh. It was the weirdest realization - "people actually think this is funny?"
I've got a lot of specific things that I've learned... but I'd like to see what you think first....
This is my first post here... so I didn't want to type out some huge post... heh.
Anyway, hope this helps and feel free to pm me!
Chris
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Originally Posted by dennis08  I have had two cups of coffee so I will do my best to type this without rage. It has been a goal of mine to get a girlfriend for a long time. I am 17 and weigh in at 125.
I don’t talk to many girls because if you make friends with a girl nothing will EVER happen. I speak from experience. I don’t smell bad or dress strange or have lots of acne and I practice the art of hygiene.
Most people will tell you to just be yourself. Umm be myself  Myself is the guy that cant get a girlfriend in the first place  Not having a girlfriend makes me conscious about my weight and my height and things like that because I’ve tried everything else.
Also you will never find me being the guy that acts mental and shows off to get the girl unless I have had two cups of coffee.
Any advice would be much appreciated. Especially from the ladies  |