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Old 09-03-2007, 03:05 AM
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Trust me, be yourself. You want a girl that loves 'real' you. And if she loved 'real' you, you'd be happy.
Then it is also perfectly fine not to now what the girls hobby's are before you meet her. She probably doesn't know your hobby's either.

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Trust me, be yourself. You want a girl that loves 'real' you. And if she loved 'real' you, you'd be happy.
What's real anyway? Authenticity. In our shallow world people search for the edges, for something which is interesting.

The question is: Who could you authentially be? Be that person.

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I never seen it like that "Trying to become a boyfriend".... sometimes I've thought of behaving like if I already had a girlfriend, what should I change, etc. Needless to say that didn't work...
I too have seen my relationship with my mother and my sister with me as paralel things to a girlfriend or patterns it could matter but even in my most affectous times with them, that hasn't changed a thing with girls.
I think Steve means showing that kind of affection to every girl you know.
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