Originally Posted by dennis08
if you make friends with a girl nothing will EVER happen.
I was friends with my wife for fifteen years before I married her. I was friends with her for ten years before I asked her out.
I'll sing from the same songbook as Steve on this one... you'll have far more success if your perspective is one of "what am I bringing to the table?" and not, "I need to collect me one of those girlfriend things everyone seems to have."
Even now, when my wife and I argue, I find myself asking,"What kind of husband am I being" as opposed to "Do you understand what kind of wife you're being?!" The former leads to resolution... the latter leads to a fight!